http://pregnancyloss.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/abductions-and-loss/ An Extension of www.pregnancyloss.info Fri, 04 Jul 2008 18:48:23 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=MU http://pregnancyloss.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/abductions-and-loss/#comment-1233 melody Thu, 22 Mar 2007 19:10:53 +0000 http://pregnancyloss.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/abductions-and-loss/#comment-1233 Whenever I hear one of these stories (or the few where someone attacked a pg woman almost ready to deliver and cut out the baby), I get a chill. First of all, for what has happened to this family. Will the baby be found?, and all that goes with that. But the second wave is for myself because I have been very vocal about losing 2 babies (and trying to get people to understand the type of grieving that goes along with this type of loss), and I wonder just how people see me? They know I'm very sad about not having any children, so I wonder if they see me as a possible abductor. I know that's paranoid, but it makes me stop and think. When I hear women complaining about their children, I sometimes want to jokingly make the comment, "I'll take them." But since my 2 losses, I don't say that any more. Whenever I hear one of these stories (or the few where someone attacked a pg woman almost ready to deliver and cut out the baby), I get a chill. First of all, for what has happened to this family. Will the baby be found?, and all that goes with that. But the second wave is for myself because I have been very vocal about losing 2 babies (and trying to get people to understand the type of grieving that goes along with this type of loss), and I wonder just how people see me? They know I’m very sad about not having any children, so I wonder if they see me as a possible abductor. I know that’s paranoid, but it makes me stop and think. When I hear women complaining about their children, I sometimes want to jokingly make the comment, “I’ll take them.” But since my 2 losses, I don’t say that any more.

]]> http://pregnancyloss.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/abductions-and-loss/#comment-1199 Deanna Mon, 12 Mar 2007 18:26:01 +0000 http://pregnancyloss.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/abductions-and-loss/#comment-1199 You can debate where you like. It's more important to talk about it and disagree than to let it go. You can debate where you like. It’s more important to talk about it and disagree than to let it go.

]]> http://pregnancyloss.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/abductions-and-loss/#comment-1197 tessy Mon, 12 Mar 2007 16:27:42 +0000 http://pregnancyloss.wordpress.com/2007/03/12/abductions-and-loss/#comment-1197 Just an FYI that I posted about this on RHC in the Den as I happen to disagree with some of your points, but I wasn't sure if this was an appropriate place for debate. Just an FYI that I posted about this on RHC in the Den as I happen to disagree with some of your points, but I wasn’t sure if this was an appropriate place for debate.

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